Well, I feel stupid now after that I feel lucky post. Son2 had a fight with K at 5am yesterday. Guess he had been up all night working on a school project, and then ended up having the fight. He won't say what it was about or what's going on to me or to his dad. He sounded funny on the phone last night. Didn't give me any details today either via text, and didn't answer when I tried to call. He did say he thinks things are alright. K hasn't answered my text either asking how she was doing. Something is going on and I don't know what. I think they don't want to say because we are leaving for our trip tomorrow night.
As you all know, this is the kind of thing that could trigger a relapse, I'm not going to kid myself about that. I even went online and did a little snooping at his bank account to see if it looked like his spending had changed (don't think so).
I know I should stay out of it...I tried to do that today, I really did. He can handle this, whatever it is, but will he? I just want him to tell me everything is ok, he stayed sober, they are still engaged, and they got through it. I wish I could talk to him face to face, but I don't think that will be possible until we get back from our trip.
So, I feel like I'm on alert. I know I should relax, let go and hop on the plane. It's his problem to solve. I know that's what I need to do, but I will probably try to talk to him again tomorrow and see if I can get any reassurances... isn't that a rather selfish thing? I really don't want to worry about this on our trip.
Hope I'm getting all worked up for nothing...